aging-parent-talks

aging-parent-talks is a cursor rule for Cursor from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. It costs 131 tokens per session (1,639 once invoked), scanned A, original, MIT.

A conversation guide for discussing driving, money, care, or moving with an aging parent. It includes a respectful opening, a clear script, practice for likely resistance, and a smaller fallback step.

In plain words
What is it for?
It helps prepare one specific conversation, choose the setting and participants, respond to deflection or hurt, and keep the discussion focused on the parent's goals.
Why use it?
It helps families raise difficult subjects without making the parent feel blamed, controlled, or ambushed.

Cursor rule for Cursor

Written for Cursor: a Cursor rule (.mdc).

Good fit It helps prepare one specific conversation, choose the setting and participants, respond to deflection or hurt, and keep the discussion focused on the parent's goals.

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Install with agentmods
npx agentmods add rules/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills/aging-parent-talks
About the project

PM Skills is a collection of plain-Markdown instructions that teach AI assistants structured methods for handling professional, personal, and life-admin tasks. People use it with Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, Cursor, Codex, and other supported agents for work such as writing product requirements, reviewing documents, or planning difficult situations.

mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills · 1,357 stars · on GitHub · mohitagw15856.github.io

Install

Getting it into your agent

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Clone the repo
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills

Made for: Cursor.

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Per session 131 Only the description is in the session, so the agent can decide to use it. The body loads when it is invoked.
When invoked 1,639 The whole file, excluding the scripts and references it only reads on demand.
Security scan A 0 findings. A grade says what 26 rules found in the file — not that it is safe.
Origin original No closer match found in the catalogue.
Token cost

What it costs to keep this loaded

Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.

ModelPer sessionOnce invoked
Fable 5.1 $0.00131 $0.01639
Opus 5 $0.00066 $0.00820
Sonnet 5 $0.00026 $0.00328
Haiku 4.5 $0.00013 $0.00164

Measured 8d ago against content hash 0309bb7d6007, method: parsed. Prices are Anthropic first-party input rates as of 2026-09-11, from the pricing page.

Security

Grade A, and why

aging-parent-talks scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 8d ago.

A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.

Nothing flagged

None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.

exports/cursor/pm-aging-parents/aging-parent-talks/aging-parent-talks.mdc · 137 lines

How it starts

The opening of the file, as written. The whole thing — 137 lines — stays where its author put it; the contents beside it link to each section on GitHub.

Aging Parent Talks Skill

These conversations get postponed because both framings feel impossible: saying nothing (and waiting for the crisis to decide) or taking over (and watching a parent's face close). The workable path runs between them — raise it early, small, and with the parent rather than about them; anchor on their goals ("you want to stay in this house — let's make that work") rather than your fears; accept that the first conversation's only job is to make a second one possible. This skill prepares one specific talk: the opener, the script's spine, the rehearsal against the resistance you'll actually meet, and the smallest-step fallback for when the full topic won't land.

What This Skill Produces

  • A conversation plan for the chosen talk (driving, money, care, moving): timing/setting, who should raise it (not always the user), the opener, and the one goal of round one
  • The dignity-first script spine: their-goals anchoring, the specific observations (never accusations), the ask sized to a first conversation
  • A rehearsal: the assistant plays the parent with realistic resistance (deflection, hurt, "I'm fine", role-reversal guilt), then debriefs out-of-character — simulator DNA, pointed at the hardest room there is
  • The small-steps fallback: what to ask for when the big topic won't land, and the crisis-line: which signs mean this stops being gradual
  • Verify-local flags for anything legal/medical (license rules, powers of attorney, care assessments — named as things to look up, never asserted)

Required Inputs

Ask for (if not already provided):

  • Which talk, and what prompted it now — the specific incidents (the scrape, the unpaid bills, the fall), because specifics carry the conversation and vagueness kills it
  • The parent as a person: what they're proudest of, what they fear (the care home? being a burden? losing the car = losing church and friends?), how they've reacted to adjacent topics
  • Family cast: siblings aligned or not ([[sibling-care-summit]] first if not), who the parent actually listens to
  • Honest stakes: inconvenient-worrying, or actively dangerous? (The dangerous branch changes the advice — and names when waiting is no longer an option)

Read the full file on GitHub · 137 lines

Changes

What this file has done since we first saw it

Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.

  1. 8d ago First seen · 137 lines · 131 tokens per session scan A 0309bb7d6007

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aging-parent-talks is a cursor rule published in the GitHub repository mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills (1,357 stars, last pushed today), licensed MIT. It adds 131 tokens to every session and 1,639 once invoked, about $0.0007 per session on Opus 5. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-09-03.