make-friends-as-an-adult

make-friends-as-an-adult is a cursor rule for Cursor from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. It costs 128 tokens per session (1,068 once invoked), scanned A, original, MIT.

A guide for making genuine friends in adulthood, when school and other regular social settings no longer bring people together automatically.

In plain words
What is it for?
Use it to find suitable places to meet people, make plans, stay in touch, and build a social routine without needing to be highly outgoing.
Why use it?
It helps with the awkwardness of meeting people, following up, and moving from being acquaintances to becoming friends.

Cursor rule for Cursor

Written for Cursor: a Cursor rule (.mdc).

Good fit Use it to find suitable places to meet people, make plans, stay in touch, and build a social routine without needing to be highly outgoing.

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Install with agentmods
npx agentmods add rules/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills/make-friends-as-an-adult
About the project

PM Skills is a collection of plain-Markdown instructions that teach AI assistants structured methods for handling professional, personal, and life-admin tasks. People use it with Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, Cursor, Codex, and other supported agents for work such as writing product requirements, reviewing documents, or planning difficult situations.

mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills · 1,357 stars · on GitHub · mohitagw15856.github.io

Install

Getting it into your agent

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Clone the repo
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills

Made for: Cursor.

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Per session 128 Only the description is in the session, so the agent can decide to use it. The body loads when it is invoked.
When invoked 1,068 The whole file, excluding the scripts and references it only reads on demand.
Security scan A 0 findings. A grade says what 26 rules found in the file — not that it is safe.
Origin original No closer match found in the catalogue.
Token cost

What it costs to keep this loaded

Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.

ModelPer sessionOnce invoked
Fable 5.1 $0.00128 $0.01068
Opus 5 $0.00064 $0.00534
Sonnet 5 $0.00026 $0.00214
Haiku 4.5 $0.00013 $0.00107

Measured 13d ago against content hash bd2bfd1b81d7, method: parsed. Prices are Anthropic first-party input rates as of 2026-09-12, from the pricing page.

Security

Grade A, and why

make-friends-as-an-adult scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 13d ago.

A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.

Nothing flagged

None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.

exports/cursor/other/make-friends-as-an-adult/make-friends-as-an-adult.mdc · 68 lines

How it starts

The opening of the file, as written. The whole thing — 68 lines — stays where its author put it; the contents beside it link to each section on GitHub.

Make Friends as an Adult

Friendship happened automatically as a kid — forced proximity and endless repeated contact. As an adult, that scaffolding disappears, so friends have to be built on purpose, which feels awkward and vulnerable and stops most people. This gives a real plan: where to find people you'd genuinely click with, the specific moves that turn a friendly acquaintance into an actual friend, and permission for it to feel a bit awkward — because it does for everyone.

What This Skill Produces

  • Where to meet the right people — settings that combine shared interest and repeated exposure (the two ingredients of friendship), tuned to you
  • The acquaintance→friend move — the specific actions that convert (initiating plans, consistency/repetition, and a little vulnerability) — most people stall at acquaintance
  • A low-pressure action plan — small, doable steps (join the thing, follow up, invite once) that don't require being an extrovert
  • The mindset reframe — that the awkwardness and fear of rejection are normal and shared, and that most people also want more friends
  • A follow-through habit — the "actually text them" nudge, since intentions don't build friendships

Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:

  • Your situation — new to an area, life changed (moved, had kids, left a job), or just drifted
  • Your interests — the shared-activity hooks to meet people around
  • Your temperament — introvert/extrovert and social energy
  • What's stopping you — awkwardness, time, not knowing where, past rejection

Framework: Proximity + Repetition + Initiative

  1. Find shared-interest + repeated-exposure settings. Friendships form where you see the same people repeatedly around something you both care about — classes, clubs, teams, volunteering, regular events. Target those, not one-off mixers.
  2. Initiate — don't wait. Adults rarely get "adopted" into friend groups; you have to make the first move (suggest a coffee, invite to a thing). Waiting is why people stay lonely.
  3. Repeat. Friendship needs multiple contacts — one nice chat isn't a friend. Build in consistency (the regular class, the repeated invite).
  4. Add a little vulnerability. Sharing something real (beyond small talk) is what deepens acquaintance into friendship — go slightly past surface.
  5. Normalize the awkward. The fear of seeming needy or being rejected is universal; most people also want more friends and will be glad you reached out.
  6. Follow through. The plan fails on the "I'll text them sometime" step — make the follow-up concrete.

Read the full file on GitHub · 68 lines

Changes

What this file has done since we first saw it

Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.

  1. 13d ago First seen · 68 lines · 128 tokens per session scan A bd2bfd1b81d7

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make-friends-as-an-adult is a cursor rule published in the GitHub repository mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills (1,357 stars, last pushed yesterday), licensed MIT. It adds 128 tokens to every session and 1,068 once invoked, about $0.0006 per session on Opus 5. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-08-30.