reconnect-with-someone

reconnect-with-someone is a cursor rule for Cursor from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. It costs 140 tokens per session (1,104 once invoked), scanned A, original, MIT.

A guide to contacting someone you have lost touch with and reopening the relationship without making the time apart feel overwhelming.

In plain words
What is it for?
Use it to write a warm first message, mention a genuine reason for reaching out, suggest a next step such as a call or meeting, and keep the invitation low-pressure.
Why use it?
It helps overcome the awkwardness of a long silence and avoids messages that sound guilty, demanding, or insincere.

Cursor rule for Cursor

Written for Cursor: a Cursor rule (.mdc).

Good fit Use it to write a warm first message, mention a genuine reason for reaching out, suggest a next step such as a call or meeting, and keep the invitation low-pressure.

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Install with agentmods
npx agentmods add rules/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills/reconnect-with-someone
About the project

PM Skills is a collection of plain-Markdown instructions that teach AI assistants structured methods for handling professional, personal, and life-admin tasks. People use it with Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, Cursor, Codex, and other supported agents for work such as writing product requirements, reviewing documents, or planning difficult situations.

mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills · 1,357 stars · on GitHub · mohitagw15856.github.io

Install

Getting it into your agent

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Clone the repo
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills

Made for: Cursor.

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README.md
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Per session 140 Only the description is in the session, so the agent can decide to use it. The body loads when it is invoked.
When invoked 1,104 The whole file, excluding the scripts and references it only reads on demand.
Security scan A 0 findings. A grade says what 26 rules found in the file — not that it is safe.
Origin original No closer match found in the catalogue.
Token cost

What it costs to keep this loaded

Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.

ModelPer sessionOnce invoked
Fable 5.1 $0.00140 $0.01104
Opus 5 $0.00070 $0.00552
Sonnet 5 $0.00028 $0.00221
Haiku 4.5 $0.00014 $0.00110

Measured 12d ago against content hash 7745f78af4bb, method: parsed. Prices are Anthropic first-party input rates as of 2026-09-11, from the pricing page.

Security

Grade A, and why

reconnect-with-someone scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 12d ago.

A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.

Nothing flagged

None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.

exports/cursor/other/reconnect-with-someone/reconnect-with-someone.mdc · 69 lines

How it starts

The opening of the file, as written. The whole thing — 69 lines — stays where its author put it; the contents beside it link to each section on GitHub.

Reconnect With Someone

Most lost friendships didn't end — they just drifted, and then the gap itself became the barrier ("it's been so long, it'd be weird now"). But the other person almost always feels the same and is glad you reached out. This gets you past the awkwardness with a warm message that acknowledges the gap lightly, gives a genuine reason for reaching out, and reopens the door — because reconnecting usually just needs one person brave enough to text first.

What This Skill Produces

  • The awkwardness reframe — why the gap feels bigger to you than to them, and why they'll likely be glad, not annoyed
  • A warm reach-out message — one that acknowledges the time lightly (not a groveling apology) and feels genuine
  • A specific hook — the reason for reaching out now (a shared memory, something that reminded you of them, a life update, or simply "you crossed my mind")
  • The path forward — how to move from the reopening message toward actually reconnecting (a call, a meet-up) without overloading the first message
  • A no-pressure stance — how to reach out warmly without making them feel guilty for the drift either

Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:

  • Who — the person and your history (close friend, old colleague, relative)
  • The gap — how long, and roughly why you drifted (moved, life, a small falling-out)
  • What prompted it — why you want to reconnect now
  • Any complication — was there tension, or did it just fade

Framework: Acknowledge Lightly, Give A Hook, Reopen

  1. Shrink the awkwardness. Remind the person that the other side almost certainly feels the gap too and will be glad — the barrier is mostly in their own head.
  2. Acknowledge the time, lightly. A brief, warm nod to the gap ("I know it's been ages!") beats either ignoring it or a heavy apology that makes it awkward.
  3. Give a genuine hook. A specific reason lands better than a bare "hey" — a memory, something that reminded you of them, a life update, or an honest "you popped into my head and I miss you."
  4. Keep the first message light. Reopen the door — don't cram a friendship's worth of catching-up or a big ask into the first text.
  5. Move toward real reconnection. Once they reply, suggest a low-key call or meet-up — the message is the door, the conversation is the room.
  6. No guilt, either way. Reach out warmly without blaming them (or yourself) for the drift — keep it light and forward-looking.

Read the full file on GitHub · 69 lines

Changes

What this file has done since we first saw it

Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.

  1. 12d ago First seen · 69 lines · 140 tokens per session scan A 7745f78af4bb

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reconnect-with-someone is a cursor rule published in the GitHub repository mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills (1,357 stars, last pushed today), licensed MIT. It adds 140 tokens to every session and 1,104 once invoked, about $0.0007 per session on Opus 5. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-08-30.