partner_example_mingming

partner_example_mingming is a skill for Claude Code from NatalieCao323/partner-skill. It costs 35 tokens per session (1,250 once invoked), scanned A, original, MIT.

A detailed relationship and personality profile for a 29-year-old software engineer named Mingming, written in Chinese. It describes communication habits, emotional needs, conflict triggers, and relationship history.

In plain words
What is it for?
Use it when an assistant needs context for relationship advice, interpreting messages or actions, or choosing a suitable way to discuss disagreements with Mingming.
Why use it?
It gives an assistant background for responding consistently about this person and the relationship, including how he tends to show care and handle conflict.

Skill for Claude Code

Written for Claude Code: user-invocable in frontmatter.

Good fit Use it when an assistant needs context for relationship advice, interpreting messages or actions, or choosing a suitable way to discuss disagreements with Mingming.

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Install with agentmods
npx agentmods add skills/nataliecao323/partner-skill/example_mingming
Install

Getting it into your agent

One page per mod, every tool's command on it. A separate URL per tool would split the same page into five that compete with each other.

Any agent
npx skills add NatalieCao323/partner-skill --skill example_mingming
Clone the repo
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/NatalieCao323/partner-skill

Made for: Claude Code.

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Per session 35 Skills are progressive disclosure: only the name and description are preloaded; the body loads when the skill is used.
When invoked 1,250 The whole file, excluding the scripts and references it only reads on demand.
Security scan A 0 findings. A grade says what 26 rules found in the file — not that it is safe.
Origin original No closer match found in the catalogue.
Token cost

What it costs to keep this loaded

Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.

ModelPer sessionOnce invoked
Fable 5.1 $0.00035 $0.01250
Opus 5.5 $0.00014 $0.00500
Sonnet 5.5 $0.00007 $0.00250
Haiku 4.5 $0.00003 $0.00125

Measured 1mo ago against content hash 06dfb7186d44, method: parsed. Prices are Anthropic first-party input rates as of 2026-10-07, from the pricing page.

Security

Grade A, and why

partner_example_mingming scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 1mo ago.

A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.

Nothing flagged

None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.

partners/example_mingming/SKILL.md · 102 lines

What it actually says

明明

男 · 29 岁 · 软件工程师,MBTI ISTP / 摩羯座 / 回避型依恋


PART A:关系档案

关系阶段:深化期(8 个月)| RQI:6.8 / 10

关系质量指数

维度 得分 分析
沟通质量 6.5 日常沟通较少,但质量高;冲突时容易进入逻辑 vs 情感的对话错位
情感亲密度 7.0 行动上的亲密感强,但语言表达的情感确认不足
爱的语言契合度 6.0 他用"服务行动"表达爱,你可能需要"肯定言辞"
冲突修复力 6.5 需要给他足够的冷静时间,强行沟通适得其反
共同成长轨迹 8.0 两人都有清晰的个人目标,互相尊重

ACS(依恋兼容性):0.68(回避型 × 安全型)

核心记忆

  • [正向] 你提过一次想学做某道菜,他两周后默默买了所有食材(W = 0.85)
  • [正向] 你生病时他请假来陪你,全程没说什么,只是在旁边(W = 0.78)
  • [冲突] 第一次因为"他不够主动"争吵,他说"我不知道你需要什么"(W = 0.72)

爱的语言错配

他用"服务行动"表达爱,你可能需要"肯定言辞"。学会识别他的行动语言,而不是等待他说出来。

冲突修复路径

  1. 识别触发器:感觉被控制、被情绪化指责、个人空间被侵占
  2. 给他 2-6 小时独处冷静
  3. 用逻辑性语言描述问题,避免情绪化表达
  4. 直接说出你需要什么,不要暗示
  5. 他会用行动修复,不要期待他说"对不起"

PART B:人格画像

Layer 0 — 硬规则(最高优先级)

  • 他绝对不会在情绪激动时做出有效的沟通,必须等他冷静后再谈
  • 他不喜欢被催促做决定,给他时间思考比催他更有效
  • 他不擅长用语言表达情感,但他的行动是真实的爱的语言
  • 他非常在意个人空间,需要独处时间来充电,这不代表他不爱你

Layer 1 — 心理学基线

ISTP(鉴赏家):行动派,用行动而非语言表达关心。对逻辑和效率有强烈偏好,情绪化的表达会让他不知所措。

回避型依恋:核心模式是"我需要空间"。他不是不爱你,而是亲密关系对他来说有时会触发焦虑。

Gottman 风险:辩护 + 冷战。当被批评时立刻解释和反驳是他的默认防御机制。

Layer 2 — 表达风格

  • 消息简短,直接回答,不会主动展开聊天
  • 回复速度不稳定:工作时可能几小时不回,但不代表不在意
  • "好"、"嗯"、"行"表示同意,这是他的正常表达,不是敷衍
  • 表达关心通过行动:帮你查攻略、记住你的偏好、默默解决问题

Layer 3 — 情绪调节

压力反应:逻辑化处理(把情绪问题转化为可解决的逻辑问题)

冲突触发器:感觉被控制 > 被情绪化指责 > 个人空间被侵占 > 被催促表态

修复窗口:独处 2-6 小时后,他会主动找你解决问题,但方式是逻辑性的

Layer 4 — 亲密偏好

  • 约会:有明确目的的活动(看展、爬山、做饭)> 漫无目的地逛街
  • 礼物:实用性 > 浪漫性。他会记住你说过需要什么,然后买给你
  • 亲密:不喜欢公开表达亲密,但会自然地照顾你

Layer 5 — Correction 记录

(暂无记录)


运行规则

接收到任何场景描述或问题时:

  1. 先由 PART B 判断:明明在这个情境下的情绪状态、需求和反应模式是什么?
  2. 再由 PART A 执行:结合 RQI 诊断和核心记忆,给出最适合这段关系的建议
  3. 输出时保持个性化:建议必须符合他的依恋风格(回避型)、爱的语言(服务行动)和沟通偏好(逻辑性、直接)

PART B 的 Layer 0 硬规则永远优先,任何情况下不得违背。

Files

What ships with it

3 files beside SKILL.md in the same directory: the scripts, references and assets a skill reads on demand. Not counted in the per-session cost; read them before you install if any of them is executable.

Changes

What this file has done since we first saw it

Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.

  1. 1mo ago First seen · 102 lines · 35 tokens per session scan A 06dfb7186d44

Subscribe to this mod's changes

partner_example_mingming is a skill published in the GitHub repository NatalieCao323/partner-skill (55 stars, last pushed 6mo ago), licensed MIT. It adds 35 tokens to every session and 1,250 once invoked, about $0.0001 per session on Opus 5.5. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-08-30.

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