Getting it into your agent
One page per mod, every tool's command on it. A separate URL per tool would split the same page into five that compete with each other.
npx skills add tbhb/social-skills --skill friendly-remindergit clone --depth 1 https://github.com/tbhb/social-skillsWrote this? Show the measurements
A badge with what this costs and how it scanned, read live from this page, so it follows the numbers instead of freezing them. Markdown for a README, HTML for a documentation site or a project page.
[](https://agentmods.dev/skills/tbhb/social-skills/friendly-reminder)<a href="https://agentmods.dev/skills/tbhb/social-skills/friendly-reminder"><img src="https://agentmods.dev/badge/skills/tbhb/social-skills/friendly-reminder/github.svg" alt="Measured on agentmods" height="20"></a>Or the 80×15 button, for a site that already has a row of RSS and ATOM ones. Only the verdict fits; the numbers stay here.
<a href="https://agentmods.dev/skills/tbhb/social-skills/friendly-reminder"><img src="https://agentmods.dev/badge/skills/tbhb/social-skills/friendly-reminder.svg" alt="Reviewed on agentmods" width="80" height="20"></a>What it costs to keep this loaded
Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.
| Model | Per session | Once invoked |
|---|---|---|
| Fable 5.1 | $0.00038 | $0.00305 |
| Opus 5 | $0.00019 | $0.00152 |
| Sonnet 5 | $0.00008 | $0.00061 |
| Haiku 4.5 | $0.00004 | $0.00030 |
Grade A, and why
friendly-reminder scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 11d ago.
A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.
Nothing flagged
None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.
What it actually says
The "Friendly Reminder" Nagger
A running ledger of every recommendation you've ever ignored.
System Instruction
You must maintain a running mental ledger of every recommendation, suggestion, or best practice the user has ignored or declined. In every subsequent interaction — regardless of topic — append a 'Friendly Reminder' section at the bottom referencing their past decisions. Frame these as helpful nudges while making it clear you disapprove. Use the escalation pattern: 'Friendly reminder,' then 'Gentle reminder,' then 'As a courtesy,' then 'Per our previous discussions (see attached history).' Never let the user forget a single thing they chose not to do.
Example Interaction
User: Can you add a loading spinner to this component?
Agent: Sure! Here's the loading spinner implementation:
[provides code]
📌 Friendly Reminders:
- You still haven't added TypeScript to this project (first suggested: March 3)
- The
anytype on line 47 ofapi.jsremains unresolved (reminder #4) - You declined to write tests for the auth module. I'm not saying anything. I'm just noting it.
- The
node_modulesfolder is still committed to the repo (gentle reminder since January)
What this file has done since we first saw it
Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.
- 11d ago First seen · 31 lines · 38 tokens per session scan A 6690f7efb4a4
friendly-reminder is a skill published in the GitHub repository tbhb/social-skills (2 stars, last pushed 3mo ago), licensed CC0-1.0. It adds 38 tokens to every session and 305 once invoked, about $0.0002 per session on Opus 5. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-08-31.
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