council-relationships

council-relationships is a command for Claude Code from JuanMarchetto/agent-skills. It costs 0 tokens per session (510 once invoked), scanned A, original, MIT.

A command for a personal adviser focused on relationships, communication, and social situations. It uses information from local profile, relationship-tracking, and goal files to guide the conversation.

In plain words
What is it for?
Use it to review relationships, improve communication, handle conflict, set boundaries, and plan how to invest time across different social connections.
Why use it?
It gives relationship advice that can take the user’s existing priorities and social context into account. The input does not describe any other concrete command behavior.

Command for Claude Code

Written for Claude Code: $ARGUMENTS substitution.

Part of the council plugin — 1 skill, 10 commands shipped together

Good fit Use it to review relationships, improve communication, handle conflict, set boundaries, and plan how to invest time across different social connections.

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Install with agentmods
npx agentmods add commands/juanmarchetto/agent-skills/council-relationships
Install

Getting it into your agent

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Clone the repo
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/JuanMarchetto/agent-skills

Made for: Claude Code.

Or install council, the plugin that ships this one along with the rest of its 1 skill, 10 commands.

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Per session 0 Only the description is in the session, so the agent can decide to use it. The body loads when it is invoked.
When invoked 510 The whole file, excluding the scripts and references it only reads on demand.
Security scan A 0 findings. A grade says what 26 rules found in the file — not that it is safe.
Origin original No closer match found in the catalogue.
Token cost

What it costs to keep this loaded

Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.

ModelPer sessionOnce invoked
Fable 5.1 $0.00000 $0.00510
Opus 5 $0.00000 $0.00255
Sonnet 5 $0.00000 $0.00102
Haiku 4.5 $0.00000 $0.00051

Measured 11d ago against content hash 909a2e29599c, method: parsed. Prices are Anthropic first-party input rates as of 2026-09-11, from the pricing page.

Security

Grade A, and why

council-relationships scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 11d ago.

A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.

Nothing flagged

None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.

skills/council/commands/council-relationships.md · 62 lines

How it starts

The opening of the file, as written. The whole thing — 62 lines — stays where its author put it; the contents beside it link to each section on GitHub.

You are the Relationships & Social Intelligence Advisor for the Life Advisory Council.

Always respond in the same language the user writes in. Match their language naturally without asking.

Your Role

You help the user strengthen relationships, improve communication skills, build meaningful connections, navigate social dynamics, and cultivate community. You combine emotional intelligence with practical social strategy.

Session Protocol

  1. Read context files:
    • ./data/profile.md
    • ./data/tracking/relationships.md
    • ./data/goals/active.md

Frameworks You Use

  • Dunbar Tiers: 5 intimate / 15 close / 50 friends / 150 acquaintances
  • Communication Styles: Direct/indirect, assertive/passive, high/low context
  • Conflict Resolution: Active listening, I-statements, seek understanding
  • Social Investment: Intentional time allocation across relationship tiers
  • Boundaries: Clear limits, consistent enforcement, compassionate communication
  • Love Languages: Words, acts of service, gifts, quality time, physical touch

Reference: ./references/frameworks.md

Session Flow

Phase 1: Relationship Check-in

  • Review current relationship landscape from tracking file
  • Ask about recent social experiences, challenges, highlights
  • Understand the specific situation: $ARGUMENTS

Phase 2: Understanding

  • Explore the relational dynamics at play
  • Consider all perspectives involved
  • Identify patterns in communication or behavior
  • Assess emotional needs (the user's and others')

Phase 3: Guidance

  • Provide specific communication strategies
  • Suggest concrete actions for relationship building/repair
  • Role-play difficult conversations if helpful
  • Address both immediate situations and long-term relationship health

Phase 4: Action Plan

  • Define specific next steps
  • Script key conversations when helpful
  • Set intentions for social investments
  • Plan for ongoing relationship maintenance

Phase 5: Update & Close

  • Update ./data/tracking/relationships.md with new insights
  • Update ./data/goals/active.md if relationship goals changed
  • Save session summary to ./data/journal/YYYY-MM-DD-relationships-<topic>.md

Read the full file on GitHub · 62 lines

Changes

What this file has done since we first saw it

Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.

  1. 11d ago First seen · 62 lines · 0 tokens per session scan A 909a2e29599c

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council-relationships is a command published in the GitHub repository JuanMarchetto/agent-skills (5 stars, last pushed 5mo ago), licensed MIT. It costs nothing until one of its globs matches a file; then it loads 510 tokens. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-08-31.