end-of-life-wishes-conversation

end-of-life-wishes-conversation is a cursor rule for Cursor from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. It costs 133 tokens per session (1,236 once invoked), scanned A, original, MIT.

A guide to discussing and recording a person's end-of-life wishes before a medical crisis. It covers treatment preferences, place of care, quality of life, personal wishes, and who should make decisions.

In plain words
What is it for?
Starting the conversation gently, listening without imposing, discussing difficult choices, handling resistance, and documenting wishes for later use.
Why use it?
It reduces the chance that family members must guess what someone wanted during a stressful emergency.

Cursor rule for Cursor

Written for Cursor: a Cursor rule (.mdc).

Good fit Starting the conversation gently, listening without imposing, discussing difficult choices, handling resistance, and documenting wishes for later use.

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Install with agentmods
npx agentmods add rules/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills/end-of-life-wishes-conversation
About the project

PM Skills is a collection of plain-Markdown instructions that teach AI assistants structured methods for handling professional, personal, and life-admin tasks. People use it with Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, Cursor, Codex, and other supported agents for work such as writing product requirements, reviewing documents, or planning difficult situations.

mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills · 1,357 stars · on GitHub · mohitagw15856.github.io

Install

Getting it into your agent

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Clone the repo
git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills

Made for: Cursor.

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README.md
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Per session 133 Only the description is in the session, so the agent can decide to use it. The body loads when it is invoked.
When invoked 1,236 The whole file, excluding the scripts and references it only reads on demand.
Security scan A 0 findings. A grade says what 26 rules found in the file — not that it is safe.
Origin original No closer match found in the catalogue.
Token cost

What it costs to keep this loaded

Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.

ModelPer sessionOnce invoked
Fable 5.1 $0.00133 $0.01236
Opus 5 $0.00067 $0.00618
Sonnet 5 $0.00027 $0.00247
Haiku 4.5 $0.00013 $0.00124

Measured 8d ago against content hash 90b9dbd03a5d, method: parsed. Prices are Anthropic first-party input rates as of 2026-09-12, from the pricing page.

Security

Grade A, and why

end-of-life-wishes-conversation scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 8d ago.

A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.

Nothing flagged

None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.

exports/cursor/pm-caregiving/end-of-life-wishes-conversation/end-of-life-wishes-conversation.mdc · 71 lines

How it starts

The opening of the file, as written. The whole thing — 71 lines — stays where its author put it; the contents beside it link to each section on GitHub.

End-of-Life Wishes Conversation

The conversation nobody wants to have is the one that, unhad, leaves families guessing and guilt-ridden during a crisis — making wrenching decisions with no idea what their loved one would have wanted. Having it before a crisis, gently and thoroughly, is one of the greatest gifts a family can give each other. This helps you open it without it feeling morbid, cover what matters, listen well, and capture the wishes so they can actually be honored. Not legal or medical advice.

What This Skill Produces

  • A gentle opening — a way to start this conversation that doesn't feel morbid, forced, or like you're rushing them toward death (a news story, a form to fill, "I want to make sure we honor what you want")
  • The areas to cover — medical wishes (interventions, resuscitation, comfort vs. aggressive care), where they want to be cared for and to die, what quality of life means to them, spiritual/personal wishes, and the practical/legal pieces (documents, who decides)
  • A listen-don't-impose stance — how to draw out their wishes rather than project your own or steer them
  • How to handle resistance — if they don't want to talk about it, how to ease in without forcing
  • Capturing & sharing it — how to document the wishes and make sure the right people (family, doctors) know them, and a nudge toward proper advance-directive documents
  • A boundary — this guides the conversation; the legal documents and medical specifics need professionals

Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:

  • Who — whose wishes (an aging parent, an ill partner, planning your own)
  • The context — proactive planning, a recent diagnosis, or declining health
  • The relationship & dynamic — how open they are, and whether this is welcome or resisted
  • What prompted it — and any urgency
  • What's been discussed — any wishes already known or documented

Framework: Open Gently, Listen, Capture

  1. Open without morbidity. Frame it as honoring their wishes and easing the family's burden — anchored to a prompt (a form, a story, a relative's experience) so it's not out of nowhere. Reassure it's about respecting them, not giving up on them.
  2. Cover the real areas. Medical interventions and comfort-vs-aggressive care, where they want to be, what makes life worth living for them, spiritual/personal wishes, and the practical/legal (documents, decision-maker).
  3. Listen, don't impose. This is about their wishes — draw them out with open questions and resist steering toward what you'd want or find easier.
  4. Ease resistance. If they deflect, don't force it — plant the seed, come back another time, or start with the easier practical pieces.
  5. Capture and share. Write down what they express, make sure the key people and their doctors know, and point them toward proper advance-directive/legal documents so wishes are actually binding.
  6. Get the documents right. The conversation isn't the paperwork — flag that legal directives and medical orders need the proper professional process.

Read the full file on GitHub · 71 lines

Changes

What this file has done since we first saw it

Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.

  1. 8d ago First seen · 71 lines · 133 tokens per session scan A 90b9dbd03a5d

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end-of-life-wishes-conversation is a cursor rule published in the GitHub repository mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills (1,357 stars, last pushed yesterday), licensed MIT. It adds 133 tokens to every session and 1,236 once invoked, about $0.0007 per session on Opus 5. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-09-03.