Getting it into your agent
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npx skills add jeffreytse/grimoire-core --skill run-difficult-conversationgit clone --depth 1 https://github.com/jeffreytse/grimoire-coreWrote this? Show the measurements
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Counted locally with the o200k_base tokenizer, which is exact for GPT models; Claude uses its own tokenizer and its counts differ. Treat this as one consistent yardstick across the catalogue rather than a bill. Prices are per million input tokens.
| Model | Per session | Once invoked |
|---|---|---|
| Fable 5.1 | $0.00029 | $0.01238 |
| Opus 5 | $0.00015 | $0.00619 |
| Sonnet 5 | $0.00006 | $0.00248 |
| Haiku 4.5 | $0.00003 | $0.00124 |
Grade A, and why
run-difficult-conversation scanned grade A with 0 findings against 26 rules in 11 categories — prompt injection, anti-refusal, data exfiltration, privilege escalation, supply chain, agent snooping, system-prompt leakage, SSRF and excessive agency — measured 5d ago.
A static scan of the body, not an audit. Every finding is printed with the line that produced it so you can judge whether it matters here. A mod is markdown that instructs an agent; that is exactly why what it instructs is worth reading.
Nothing flagged
None of the 26 patterns this scan looks for appear in this file: no shell pipes, no recursive deletes, no credential paths, no hidden text, no instruction-override or anti-refusal phrasing, no agent-config snooping. That is not a guarantee, it is the absence of the things that are checkable.
How it starts
The opening of the file, as written. The whole thing — 63 lines — stays where its author put it; the contents beside it link to each section on GitHub.
Run Difficult Conversation
Plan and conduct a high-stakes conversation that addresses conflict, performance, or sensitive issues without damaging the relationship.
Why This Is Best Practice
Adopted by: Google, Netflix, Bridgewater Associates, and organizations using radical candor and Harvard Negotiation frameworks Impact: Patterson et al. found that the ability to hold crucial conversations is the single highest predictor of team performance and individual career success across 20,000+ respondents. Stone et al. documented that avoided difficult conversations cost organizations an estimated $359 billion per year in lost productivity (CPP Global Human Capital Report). Scott's research showed that managers who give direct, caring feedback retain top performers at 2x the rate of those who avoid difficult feedback. Why best: Most difficult conversations are avoided because of anticipated emotional cost, but avoidance compounds both the problem and the relationship damage. A structured approach reduces emotional flooding, keeps both parties in a collaborative mindset, and produces durable agreements.
Sources: Stone, Patton & Heen "Difficult Conversations" (Harvard Negotiation Project, 1999); Patterson, Grenny et al. "Crucial Conversations" (2002); Scott "Radical Candor" (2017)
Steps
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Identify the three conversations — every difficult conversation contains three simultaneous conversations: (1) What happened? (the content dispute), (2) How do I feel? (the emotional layer), and (3) What does this say about me? (the identity layer). Prepare for all three.
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Examine your own contribution — before the conversation, ask: What role did I play in creating this situation? Assuming you bear no responsibility is almost always incorrect and closes off productive resolution. Acknowledge your contribution early in the conversation.
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Set an appropriate time and place — schedule a private, uninterrupted setting. Never initiate a difficult conversation in public, immediately before a major event, or via text/email. Request the meeting with context: "I'd like to discuss something important. Can we meet privately for 30 minutes?"
What this file has done since we first saw it
Hashed on every crawl. A supply-chain change to an agent config is a question of when, not whether, so the history is kept rather than the latest state alone.
- 5d ago First seen · 63 lines · 29 tokens per session scan A 7e98f4462046
run-difficult-conversation is a skill published in the GitHub repository jeffreytse/grimoire-core (4 stars, last pushed 20d ago), licensed MIT. It adds 29 tokens to every session and 1,238 once invoked, about $0.0001 per session on Opus 5. A static security scan graded it A with 0 findings. No closer match exists in the catalogue, so it is treated as the original; first seen 2026-09-03.
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